I and she met each other at schoolShe is independent and intelligent
She is originally straight
In the first half year, we have a strong passion for each other
but now her rationality comes back
she repeats that she wants to marry in the future
and she wants baby
but i keep on holding her
every 2 week, we would argue and then nothing happen
but now she is in intern
when a person walks farther, she is more determined to give up
She is no longer blinded by her emotion
Now we still keep in contact every day but she did not admit our relationship
but what we are doing is not different from the way we were in relationship
A few months later, i will fly to see her to go on a trip with her
the ticket was booked by her
i am confused but i think she wants me to dump her
she wants to hurt me and so i can leave
the main point is that she has a bit unwillingness to give me up, right?

she can't leave as she still has some 感情
so try method to hurt me, making me to leave

"she can't leave as she still has some 感情"
Disagree. 當理智>感情時，她絕對會離開。

but she still keeps contact with me like couples

maybe she wanna hold on to you until she found her mr right

she is not that kind of person
she is independent n doesnt need to be in relationship

maybe u should let her go
she doesnt leave because u still need her

it really depends on your action because a relationship is a 2 way thing. if you do sth, she will be affected by it. Say you decide to leave, you will not go to find her and will keep yourself away from her. But if you want to hold her, you will go find her and make her come back to you. your action will affect the outcome.

anyways, given that she has the will to marry and hv a baby. you have to be prepared that she may leave you one day.:/

stay strong!

actually i've got same confusion like urs, my situation was worse, me and her had to handle "trust" in our relationship, i believed that we'd love each other, however, da love wasn't deep enough to deal with all problems, which means we did communicate, however, both personality are strong and keep our self prior to each other such as pride...then, when i asked her whether she still loves me, if she did, we will go further and solve all problem - that's wut i thought...however, she didn't respond my question, and of cuz, it was really exhausted for both of us at last, then i decided to leave though i love her...i think u should stop thinking her intention, it's time to think about ur own intention, whether you still want her in ur life for a while or just let go now, if you sense that you'll get hurt later then, i think you should learn how to let go, because it's most responsible way to set you guys free for own goods..and you still can be frd with her...

girl,be realistic! she doesn't admit the relationship between you
you can be with her, but u must admit the fact that she is not your grilfriend…you maybe her sex partner and good friend, but definitely not gf, and she will officially leave you one day when she find her MR right

她很心軟只是現在身在各地
難以哄她
她不斷叫自己停
或掂無將來
我曾經將所有當作‘’老馮‘’
她特我好好
不過我好似變成她仔仔
事事叫她做
後來變成她TAKE CARE ME
她說感覺變了
雖然很愛我，不想傷害我
不過只是好似仔仔咁
人行到愈遠（去了外國INTERN），以往本想放棄的人與事會更想放棄
我反醒了
待她好好
她淚流下
依然每天同我SKYPE
還PLAN了6月遊行
可以SAVE THIS LOVE MA？

既然難捨,咁不如得先試試哄她吧.
你到時也照去旅行吧,去完才算.
說真的,future的事太多變數,你又後生. 俾多幾個月試試都ok呀.

如之前所講...given that she has the will to marry and hv a baby. you have to be prepared that she may leave you one day.:/ stay strong!

feel frustrated to be a girl

不如這樣吧，我看你還是不想放棄她，你只是有點動搖而已。
我相信你還是很喜歡她，一段關係總少不免會經歷一點危機。
如果你真的愛她，那就堅持自己的信念。反正你永遠都沒法挽回已經走過的日子，何不竭盡全力來嘗試證明給她，你是非常愛她？
愛情是一種信念。

對, 堅持一下, 可能會有轉機
我曾經也試過類似的經驗, 情況可以說是我知道她愛我, 我"理性上要分手, 感性上放不下這段感情"
而我一直也是感性>理性, 雖然自己心很痛, 流過很多次淚, 維持至少半年
最後, 現在雨過天晴 感情上可以說是有個升華?