Hello everyone, I am with my Christian girl friend for 2years and half. Although we have been in a long d relationship for 1 year, we keep making skype and whatsapp everyday and every weekend. Everything was well, we planned my coming back next year. I know she still loves me very much, so I am.
But today, she told me that she cannot handle anymore our relationship with her religion ! I told her many times to look at some others Christian websites who accept homosexuality, but even after reading these websites she cannot change her mind! She really wants to break up with me because of her religion!
She really thinks homosexuality is a crime.  I don't know how to debate with her. Life is too short, and it's so hard to find the person that u love and who loves u! I don't want to let her leave me! What can I do?
I really love her, she also loves me much! Please help me!

I am a christian, I love girls, Jesus still loves me

If religion is such a big deal to her in this way, I wonder why she started the relationship with you in the first place and keep it for so long

well well, however, I have undergone the same thing, after truly breaking up with my ex, i've found that I was deadly wrong.

Thank u for ur answer. May I ask how did u know ur breaking up was wrong? I told her that leaving me was not the real solution, but obviously she doesn't believe me...
She really thinks that Christians who accept homosexuality are "bad ".Christian!

The girl I love is a Christian too.
The relationship between us only last for a week only,
You can look at my post if you want
The main reason of separation is also
because she thinks that Homosexual is a crime
I think you have tried your best to persuade her,
But still you cannot change her mind,
I would let her go if she really dont want to continue this relationship
I know it is hurt but you Actually cannot understand
What Christian think if you are not one of them

QUOTE:

It is because I still love her to death, I just can't believe that this kind of love should be cursed.

“Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. 3 Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.
(Matthew 7:1-5)
I think it is even clearer that a Christian should not judge others as bad.
Tho.... my Mum and bro do hold the same view as your gf

Thank u for all ur answers.I know that  she really loves me. She accepted to come back to me. I feel better now. But I understand that I have also my problems. I should give her bigger care and more attention. I will correct myself because I know I cannot lose her too. Thank u and hope everyone will find her love.

did she really think it through before going back to you?
is her concern solved yet?
if not, the same disaster may happen again and again
which was my case in the past

I know it will be difficult for both of us, but at least she accepts to go through her concern with me. And she has admitted that she loves me to death too.
I will try my best to find a solution with her. I will read the Bible and do research on this issue with her.  But u know, hk is really a close -minded society for common people. I am living in Europe, so this lifestyle is so incredible for me...

Agree with Difficult! Doesnt matter wt her religion. I can tell u my story to make u think of ur situation. My ex-gf with me for 7 yrs we broke up bcos she hang out with a guy for half yr and she nvr come out to her parent.. I understand her situation cos her parent ar chirstian too but i asked her to bring me out as a fd but she told me to move out b4 her parent comes..( we lived tgt for 5 yrs in Canada and her parent will come for her convo.) I cant stay with those excuses so we broke.
For now, I am with my gf over 2 yrs already keeping long-d and she is a chirstian and pray everyday go to church every week as well...Her parent treat me so gd and bring me out to see her relatives too...

If she is really luv u and she noes wt she wants for her future... she will figure it out. Wt do u think?

Swannie I know your feeling. A girl I loved before was a christian, and she was very conflicted about being les. Some days ok with it, some days angry at herself. She went to a church that considered homosexuality to be evil, and tried to keep it secret from them. Like you, I tried to show her that many churches have no problem with homosexuality, but her response was that it is evil according to the bible, and those churches are wrong. In the end her church found out that she is les and she was thrown out.

I hope your gf doesn't go to such a church... If she is surrounded by ppl who think homosexuality is wrong then I fear your problems may resurface someday

Thank u for ur answer. U are absolutely right. So I think that the main point is to change her network of friends and acquaintances. Indeed, her church is also a kind of those close-minded churches. I think if she can meet more people who accept homosexuality then it will change her mind.

Yea! my gf always go to church and as I noe the church tht she used to go is alrite for les ppl. But on d other side i noe some les fds get in trouble by going to "close-minded" church.