Don't mind I jump into this conversation. I do think, not you give him a chance. It is a chance to both of you. Just let him know, it didn't work out. If he isa true friend, he will not leave you. Or else, he leaves you cause of your reason, just one passages by in your life left. ( sorry for my poor English)

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I understand, thank you very much for your comments. I just hope that I wouldn't hurt him too bad ><

但你們維持著這種關係，對雙方都是種折磨。長痛不如短痛，趁未傷得太深。