標題: [朋友] what went wrong? [打印本頁] 作者:
charity 時間: 2012-12-17 13:32 標題: what went wrong?
a relationship with love but also misunderstandings, tolerance but also hinderance
loving with trust but also knowing there is dishonesty...
what went wrong??
pls talk to me...作者:
keikeiy 時間: 2012-12-17 16:00
你有無事呀?
係咁架啦....愛情好多時要識得去包容, 為對方改變..
先可以長久架....
你地發生左咩事.作者:
apt 時間: 2012-12-17 16:24
what happened? Dishonesty issues?作者:
charity 時間: 2012-12-17 20:39
I already tolerate many many MANY issues in the relationship...but seems that even with that, she cannot be honest and answer me because "she doesnt like to be asked questions"....feels too 烦...
she also says many les relationships are not 1-1...said if i cant tolerate then why am i still with her?!? and always says she was like this from day 1 and i should have known....BUT I REALLY DIDNT KNOW!!!! call me stupid or naive...but i am so tired and heartbroken..
worst part is, i still really love her and dont want to let her go...yet...作者:
bread_bread 時間: 2012-12-17 21:01
are u okay?
be claim!作者:
charity 時間: 2012-12-17 23:07
this xmas is gonna be shit!!! already nonstop arguing...:作者:
K.Y. 時間: 2012-12-18 09:07
"she also says many les relationships are not 1-1"作者:
kalaso 時間: 2012-12-18 09:23
you want 1, she wants 2
you can't meet in the middle and see eye to eye relationship-wise
you love each other but just can't get along without arguing
and she really thinks the majority of les relationships aren't 1 to 1?!
or is monogamy just not her thing
maybe it's time to re-evaluate on your part
at least something's got to give...
because without compromise you won't be getting anywhere
it's going to be arguements all the way
if she loves you the same way, I don't see why you guys can't try to work things out
either way, you've still got a week to go before xmas, maybe you guys can
smooth over the rough edges before then 作者:
apt 時間: 2012-12-18 09:51
okay dear I might sound a bit harsh but here's what I think.
You know what kinda person she is and here I am not questioning the love between you guys.
You are the one who choose to stay, she didn't even care to beg you cos she somehow dominates this relationship.
Then you shd bear your own consequences, as the saying goes 食得鹹魚抵得渴作者:
charity 時間: 2012-12-19 00:01
yes....thirsty due to salty fish....
but it would be easier and less frustrating if she cared more...or i cared less..
and i honestly believe monogamy is not her thing!作者:
kalaso 時間: 2012-12-19 00:34
or maybe you're just not right for each other =P作者:
apt 時間: 2012-12-19 12:48 標題: 回復 #11 kalaso 的帖子
kalaso一矢中的作者:
charity 時間: 2012-12-20 15:15
Perhaps....perhaps...
Shes always hot and cold...or maybe a typical hk style girl??作者:
kalaso 時間: 2012-12-20 19:37
突然間, 你一句typical hk girl我就覺得香港女仔好慘 作者:
charity 時間: 2012-12-22 09:42
Or perhaps there are many hk style girls that have the princess sickness?? Hahahai dunno...作者:
Professor_King 時間: 2013-1-1 04:55
I am sorry to say, but you brought that upon yourself with all these turmoil!
Obviously, she has no plan to settle down with you so why are you still
torturing yourself over a meaningless relationship. You need to walk away
and be good to yourself!
and she really thinks the majority of les relationships aren't 1 to 1?!
