標題: [愛情] monogamy?... bullshit [打印本頁]
作者:
wlp 時間: 2013-2-18 19:59 標題: monogamy?... bullshit
Honestly... I've kind of given up on monogamy.Its not that I want to play around after I've been in a relationship, but it seems like I'm the person always getting pushed around.
I know that you aren't going to be pushed around if you don't let people do it to you, but its just every single friggin time people just cheat...
In an age of rapid communication like this, should I just give up in monogamy and just keep one eye open and the other eye closed?
Very very frustrating sometimes
作者:
difficult4 時間: 2013-2-18 22:50
polygamous relationship can be disastrous in many cases
作者:
wlp 時間: 2013-2-19 23:17
Yes I do know, but then again I can't really see monogamy anything better either sometimes. You focus way too much energy on someone, in the end it just ends up pretty effed up. Or it ends up polygamous in the end too lol
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difficult4 時間: 2013-2-20 20:55
I do think that things effed up just because that one is still not the right one
作者:
prolonged 時間: 2013-2-22 22:34
Cheating can happen in a monogamous or polygamous relationship right ...
so may be u just had some bad luck??
But I do think not holding onto a relationship too much is actually better ..
But I guess that doesbt mean just giving up monogamous relationship altogether?
作者:
wlp 時間: 2013-2-23 01:44
原帖由 difficult4 於 2013-2-20 20:55 發表
I do think that things effed up just because that one is still not the right one
yeah pretty much I guess. when you know what you want doesnt mean the other person knows what they want sometimes
作者:
wlp 時間: 2013-2-23 01:45
原帖由 prolonged 於 2013-2-22 22:34 發表
Cheating can happen in a monogamous or polygamous relationship right ...
so may be u just had some bad luck??
But I do think not holding onto a relationship too much is actually better ..
Bu ...
I guess sometimes we're just too serious and hold onto something too tight?
Its always expectations and other stuff that make you insecure and hold onto things hmm..
作者:
JBeals 時間: 2013-3-25 04:45
原帖由 wlp 於 2013-2-23 01:45 發表
I guess sometimes we're just too serious and hold onto something too tight?
Its always expectations and other stuff that make you insecure and hold onto things hmm..
I think sometimes you just have to trust and always prepared to lose. I know how bad it hurts when someone cheats. But starting several flings at the same time really isn't the solution my friend. Instead you just hurt more people who suppose you could be monogamous you see?
作者:
Simsuk 時間: 2013-3-25 11:46
believe there are still true love right there , if u continuously think like this , u will never ever find a true love , instead u will keep on find those who cheat you !
i believe we always attract the same person that we are , just change the way u think or your faith in love .
example : if u go to bar often , you think u will really meet a true love there or a one night stand partner ?
i don't mean to say that ppl who go to bar / club cant find the one or true love . but ... its quite impossible .
don't get twisted because of those shit instead grow wider 
add oil !
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