標題: [愛情] She wants marriage... [打印本頁] 作者:
oceanson1991 時間: 2013-3-29 20:46 標題: She wants marriage...
I and she met each other at schoolShe is independent and intelligent
She is originally straight
In the first half year, we have a strong passion for each other
but now her rationality comes back
she repeats that she wants to marry in the future
and she wants baby
but i keep on holding her
every 2 week, we would argue and then nothing happen
but now she is in intern
when a person walks farther, she is more determined to give up
She is no longer blinded by her emotion
Now we still keep in contact every day but she did not admit our relationship
but what we are doing is not different from the way we were in relationship
A few months later, i will fly to see her to go on a trip with her
the ticket was booked by her
i am confused but i think she wants me to dump her
she wants to hurt me and so i can leave
the main point is that she has a bit unwillingness to give me up, right?作者:
oceanson1991 時間: 2013-3-29 20:49
she can't leave as she still has some 感情
so try method to hurt me, making me to leave 作者:
awdxz1 時間: 2013-3-29 22:32
"she can't leave as she still has some 感情"
Disagree. 當理智>感情時，她絕對會離開。作者:
oceanson1991 時間: 2013-3-29 22:52
but she still keeps contact with me like couples作者:
kevinh 時間: 2013-3-29 23:29
maybe she wanna hold on to you until she found her mr right作者:
oceanson1991 時間: 2013-3-30 00:46
she is not that kind of person
she is independent n doesnt need to be in relationship作者:
o_喵_o 時間: 2013-3-30 01:48
maybe u should let her go
she doesnt leave because u still need her作者:
aaa9 時間: 2013-3-30 06:29
it really depends on your action because a relationship is a 2 way thing. if you do sth, she will be affected by it. Say you decide to leave, you will not go to find her and will keep yourself away from her. But if you want to hold her, you will go find her and make her come back to you. your action will affect the outcome.
anyways, given that she has the will to marry and hv a baby. you have to be prepared that she may leave you one day.:/
actually i've got same confusion like urs, my situation was worse, me and her had to handle "trust" in our relationship, i believed that we'd love each other, however, da love wasn't deep enough to deal with all problems, which means we did communicate, however, both personality are strong and keep our self prior to each other such as pride...then, when i asked her whether she still loves me, if she did, we will go further and solve all problem - that's wut i thought...however, she didn't respond my question, and of cuz, it was really exhausted for both of us at last, then i decided to leave though i love her...i think u should stop thinking her intention, it's time to think about ur own intention, whether you still want her in ur life for a while or just let go now, if you sense that you'll get hurt later then, i think you should learn how to let go, because it's most responsible way to set you guys free for own goods..and you still can be frd with her...作者:
secretkidult 時間: 2013-3-30 11:06
girl,be realistic! she doesn't admit the relationship between you
you can be with her, but u must admit the fact that she is not your grilfriend…you maybe her sex partner and good friend, but definitely not gf, and she will officially leave you one day when she find her MR right作者:
oceanson1991 時間: 2013-3-30 20:13
她很心軟只是現在身在各地
難以哄她
她不斷叫自己停
或掂無將來
我曾經將所有當作‘’老馮‘’
她特我好好
不過我好似變成她仔仔
事事叫她做
後來變成她TAKE CARE ME
她說感覺變了
雖然很愛我，不想傷害我
不過只是好似仔仔咁
人行到愈遠（去了外國INTERN），以往本想放棄的人與事會更想放棄
我反醒了
待她好好
她淚流下
依然每天同我SKYPE
還PLAN了6月遊行
可以SAVE THIS LOVE MA？作者:
aaa9 時間: 2013-4-1 14:34 標題: 回復 #11 oceanson1991 的帖子
如之前所講...given that she has the will to marry and hv a baby. you have to be prepared that she may leave you one day.:/ stay strong!作者:
oceanson1991 時間: 2013-4-6 22:59
feel frustrated to be a girl作者:
wing.3000 時間: 2013-4-14 19:39
