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作者: Simsuk 時間: 2013-3-31 23:56 標題: About Long Distance Relationship

saw a posted about long d which is so true , ADD OIL MATes who are having long d . its a hard one , but never give up ! i believe , there is so much excuses for someone to give up ,
but there's only one reason u need to stay - faith in LOVE
Long Distance Relationship aren’t always ideal. In fact, they’re really tough. You spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. You can’t see the person when you want to or when you most need them.. You can’t hug, you can’t hold hands, you can’t kiss. You lose the intimacy in a physical sense. But then, Your relationship becomes based on each other and nothing else.

You learn to communicate,because a long-distance relationship without communication is nothing.

You learn to trust, because you can’t always see or know everything the person is doing.

You learn to sacrifice, because someone’s always going to lose a bit of sleep from the time difference.

And lastly, you learn to appreciate.

So often, we take for granted the people and relationships in our lives because we think they’ll always be there.

But When you only have a limited amount of time with a person,

you learn to appreciate and cherish every single moment you have with them.

When you finally see that person after weeks or months of seeing them only through a computer screen,

It is one of the greatest feelings in the world.

When you’ve waited for something so long and you finally have it,

you cherish it. The key to a long-distance relationship is faith.

If both of you are not willing to give up,

If both of you are willing to stand up and still try after every time one of you or both of you fall.

“Distance isn’t for the fearful, it’s for the bold ".

It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for the little time with the one they love.

It’s for knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it nearly enough.”
♥ ♥

作者: jellyyot 時間: 2013-4-1 00:23

cant agree more!!!!
十對情侶　有誰捱得下去?
又要異地戀+同性戀.真系吾易

作者: Simsuk 時間: 2013-4-1 00:33

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原帖由 jellyyot 於 2013-4-1 00:23 發表
cant agree more!!!!
十對情侶　有誰捱得下去?
又要異地戀+同性戀.真系吾易

yeah ... give support and feel happy for those who had made it or keep trying

作者: jellyyot 時間: 2013-4-1 00:43 標題: 回復 #3 Simsuk 的帖子

yaaaa.....bless them

作者: L仔 時間: 2013-4-1 13:16

one good thing about long distance relationship is...
it is always easy to give surprise..

"ding-dong" here comes mr postman!

because in some ways, you expect less when you two are physically apart.

when you are in love with someone truly, physical distance is not the a problem.

作者: Simsuk 時間: 2013-4-1 14:06

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原帖由 L仔於 2013-4-1 13:16 發表
one good thing about long distance relationship is...
it is always easy to give surprise..

"ding-dong" here comes mr postman!

because in some ways, you expect less when you two a ...

L仔, cant agree much ,
ive seen a qoute before .
when two heart are meant for each other
NO distance is too far
NO time is too long
NO other love can break them apart !
its so so true ...
sometime i may think some one who wants to give up ... no need to give up excuses but
it simply tell , there are no love exist anymore ... sad one :-(

作者: L仔 時間: 2013-4-1 14:18 標題: 回復 #6 Simsuk 的帖子

exactly.

雖然不能一概而論
但大部份時間
放棄一段感情
背後的原因
愛不夠吧

作者: Simsuk 時間: 2013-4-1 14:31

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原帖由 L仔於 2013-4-1 14:18 發表
exactly.

雖然不能一概而論
但大部份時間
放棄一段感情
背後的原因
愛不夠吧

作者: l_soul 時間: 2013-4-4 02:25

我和她，三年了。
不單是同性異地，更是異國戀。
尚未有經濟能力搞移民買樓等等，我和她只能一直飛往對方的目的地。(其實好擔心呢世都無呢個能力，香港d樓咁貴..etc)
因未向家人出櫃，見面都是在家以外的地方鬼鬼祟祟的。
很無奈，看似沒希望的戀愛，單靠信任和愛維持著。
雖然後多人說異地戀是沒可能，但是，我們都沒有想過放棄。

作者: Simsuk 時間: 2013-4-4 10:36

support ! never give up !!!!
love and faith proves everything
wonder how old are u guys ? and from which country to hk ?

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原帖由 l_soul 於 2013-4-4 02:25 發表
我和她，三年了。
不單是同性異地，更是異國戀。
尚未有經濟能力搞移民買樓等等，我和她只能一直飛往對方的目的地。(其實好擔心呢世都無呢個能力，香港d樓咁貴..etc)
因未向家人出櫃，見面都是在家以外的地方 ...

作者: swiftie 時間: 2013-4-4 12:21

Long Distance Relationship

Just broke up wif my partner
Maybe it's my fault that I dun even spent time wif her...Sigh

作者: Simsuk 時間: 2013-4-4 12:29

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原帖由 swiftie 於 2013-4-4 12:21 發表
Long Distance Relationship

Just broke up wif my partner
Maybe it's my fault that I dun even spent time wif her...Sigh

it still can be continue if both of u still love each other !

have u realized its so hard to find someone to be with , someone that u like , u love ,
u just like the feel being with her no matter what .
if yes , dont give up .
but of course it works one 2 way . one day does not really work that well , cause one of them may suffer much
i always believe love is 2 way but not 1 way .
add oil !!

作者: Saruko 時間: 2013-4-6 02:18

QUOTE:

原帖由 L仔於 2013-4-1 14:18 發表
exactly.

雖然不能一概而論
但大部份時間
放棄一段感情
背後的原因
愛不夠吧

放棄永遠比努力容易很多很多............

作者: Saruko 時間: 2013-4-6 02:21

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Similar case here...........
but we are now undergoing a huge big problem..........sigh....

作者: beyourself 時間: 2013-4-6 10:58

[quote]原帖由 Saruko 於 2013-4-6 02:21 發表

Similar case here...........
but we are now undergoing a huge big problem..........sigh.... [/quote]
what kind of problem ?

mind to share ?

作者: Saruko 時間: 2013-4-7 03:56

there are 3 persons involving in a relationship.......

(can pm me for sharing......)

作者: kkmn2 時間: 2013-4-7 11:18

this was an ideal thought, but in reality my longD relationship cannot sustain.. when your partner gave it up but you didn't.. sigh

作者: beyourself 時間: 2013-4-7 12:12

yeah its about both , with love

作者: l_soul 時間: 2013-4-13 21:21

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原帖由 Simsuk 於 2013-4-4 10:36 發表
support ! never give up !!!!
love and faith proves everything
wonder how old are u guys ? and from which country to hk ?

我地其實仲好細, 八十後啦XDDDD

作者: teve 時間: 2013-4-26 12:26

Yea!!!! Agree no more!!!!

WE...ar lesbian!
WE...ar keeping long-distance!
WE came out already!
WE see our parents and relatives...
She is a Christian!!!

EVERYTIME I THINK OF IT... HOW AMAZING IT IS!
SO THANKFUL SHE APPEAR IN MY LIFE!

GUYS!!! LETS MAKE IT WRK!

作者: Jazz 時間: 2013-4-26 20:25

I agree with what's being brought up here. Faith in the relationship is very important, and the two people must work very hard together, if either one loses trust or faith or wanna give up coz of a third person, it just shows the love is not strong enough to tie the two people together. I understand usually girls would like their partners to be beside them all (if not most) of the time, however, if one truly values/appreciates the other, distance should not be an excuse for the breakdown of a relationship. The relationship will be much more sustanianble and stronger if the couple can pass the long distance test.

Support to all who are having long distance relationship!

作者: beyourself 時間: 2013-4-27 00:32

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原帖由 teve 於 2013-4-26 12:26 發表
Yea!!!! Agree no more!!!!

WE...ar lesbian!
WE...ar keeping long-distance!
WE came out already!
WE see our parents and relatives...
She is a Christian!!!

EVERYTIME I THINK OF IT... HOW A ...

love is always amazing

作者: kf0731 時間: 2013-4-28 01:19

我同我女朋友都係 long d. 緊, 而家都十個月了,
我同佢好少skype, 因為佢最後一個sem. , 讀書好忙
但我地keep 住有日日 whats app

我真係好掛住佢, 好想touch 下佢....
佢好似唔多掛住我咁.......
間中都會同佢嘈.....
嘈完之好番,,,,嘈完反而更了解

信任真係好重要............
我問佢覺得我地有冇將來, 佢好肯定答有.....聽到佢咁講......我會堅持落去等佢返黎!!!

有時,,真係幾寂寞,,冇佢陪我行街,,成日都自己一個........

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