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作者: 君綿 時間: 2013-7-26 21:02 標題: 點先做到一個稱職既伴侶?

近日, 我partner好似心事重重
我問佢發生咩事
佢話, 雖然我成日同佢講我愛佢, 但係佢感受唔到
我問, 咁我可以點做
佢話, 對佢好D

我自問已經對佢好好
佢做緊野, 我唔會騷擾佢
佢話肚餓, 我會煮野佢食
我都會俾佢知道, 我欣賞佢對我o既付出
但係點解佢都係感受唔到?

我唔想失去佢, 有無人可以教下我, 我可以點做?

作者: 1982 時間: 2013-7-26 21:49

乜叉野都唔做!

我覺得愛情就係咁賤格, 你對佢越好佢只會越老鳳
恰當既相處係一啖沙糖一啖屎

作者: sanji 時間: 2013-7-26 22:03

施受要平衡~!

作者: 君綿 時間: 2013-7-26 22:19

QUOTE:

原帖由 1982 於 2013-7-26 21:49 發表
乜叉野都唔做!

我覺得愛情就係咁賤格, 你對佢越好佢只會越老鳳
恰當既相處係一啖沙糖一啖屎

你誤會了
佢對我好好
好到我身邊o既朋友都好羨慕我

作者: Trespasser 時間: 2013-7-27 00:38

樓主另一半點對你好? 有無例子

作者: 君綿 時間: 2013-7-27 20:16

QUOTE:

原帖由 Trespasser 於 2013-7-27 00:38 發表
樓主另一半點對你好? 有無例子

當我突然想食某樣野時, 不論早午晚, 佢都會專登去買, 然後送到我屋企

其實係唔係佢覺得我付出得唔夠多?

作者: J__ 時間: 2013-7-28 00:37

有時唔係1 D 行為去令人感覺到愛唔愛1個人.
愛. 係由心出發. 用心感受.
試下叫你PARTNER用心去感受. 同心靈溝通. 感受你既愛.
你都用心同佢去交流. 愛. 用心去傳遞.

作者: orangeblue 時間: 2013-7-28 19:44

試下做多D佢會對你做既野
EG. 你話你PARTNER會係你突然想食某樣野時, 不論早午晚, 都會專登去買, 然後送埋上屋企
try to do it for her

PS. similar situation here, but im the one who is 心事重重..
但佢連一句愛我都好耐冇講.....
可能佢真係唔愛我啦.........

作者: 君綿 時間: 2013-7-28 21:05

QUOTE:

原帖由 orangeblue 於 2013-7-28 19:44 發表
試下做多D佢會對你做既野
EG. 你話你PARTNER會係你突然想食某樣野時, 不論早午晚, 都會專登去買, 然後送埋上屋企
try to do it for her

PS. similar situation here, but im the one who is 心事重重..
但 ...

多謝你o既提議
不過呢, 我想知你會渴望你partner對你做d咩?

作者: orangeblue 時間: 2013-7-28 23:06

Make time for me.

I know she is quite busy recently, so i think its necessary to confirm our dates in advance so that we can make full use of her limited time. But her attitude is like, "we'll meet up this week, see when Im free la. If can't see then I can do nth too." This attitude makes me wonder whether she wanna see me. or juz want to satisfy me...

anyway, my case is juz my case la. maybe u already did a lot to make ur partner feels ur love le! can u tell us more abt u 2's recent situation?

作者: goodselling 時間: 2013-7-29 14:38

陪多d佢啦！

作者: 君綿 時間: 2013-8-1 21:36

今日佢終於願意話我知
佢話覺得好支力
覺得一直只有佢o係度付出

我如夢初醒
我一直以為佢好享受寵我

我錯了
我可以點做?
我唔想無左佢

作者: Dude 時間: 2013-8-1 21:40

arrange a talk with her to see whether you 2 can fix this shxt.

作者: orangeblue 時間: 2013-8-2 00:31

好好地坐低傾下啦
EG講下大家對另一半既期許, 大家又可以點樣實現對方既期望
最重要係要遊說佢俾時間大家努力試下改善現況先

你係時候勤力D做多D野啦

作者: 天天 時間: 2013-8-2 16:11

無乜detail...咁開始做「你同以前相反ge野」

佢做緊野, 做完野...back hug或抱抱佢自動mode
唔好等佢話肚餓..照煮野佢食
我都會俾佢知道, 我欣賞佢對我o既付出<----skip..佢根本知自己做緊乜
但係點解佢都係感受唔到?<-----咁你真係無做出黎

作者: 君綿 時間: 2013-8-8 23:18

QUOTE:

原帖由天天於 2013-8-2 16:11 發表
無乜detail...咁開始做「你同以前相反ge野」

佢做緊野, 做完野...back hug或抱抱佢自動mode
唔好等佢話肚餓..照煮野佢食
我都會俾佢知道, 我欣賞佢對我o既付出<----skip..佢根本知自己做緊乜
但係點 ...

上星期日我嘗試主動煮午餐俾佢
佢好開心, 話"你終於知道我會肚餓喇"
係我一直太粗心大意嗎?

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