『作了令神不悅的事，去不了天堂。』



I respect faith. I respect your faith. But i think "that is a sin" is always a convenient excuse. You can't follow a book that isn't scientific and consistent and expect it to dictate your whole life. You are not a robot, you will be miserable. This isn't about "living in the moment", it is about whether you mind losing yourself over an assumed better afterlife.

Milan Kundera once wrote: 人永遠都無法知道自己該要什麼，因為人只能活一次，既不能拿它跟前世相比，也不能在來生加以修正。沒有任何方法可以檢驗哪種抉擇是好的，因為不存在任何比較。一切都是馬上經歷，僅此一次，不能准備。

You see, it is just a book. The only way to be happy is to love. unless you love your life will flash by. I guess you will have to choose, a living hell or a hypothesis of a promised heaven.

I hope you find clarity soon. And may your friend rest in peace.

我唔係教徒，坦白講我亦唔了解教徒既思維
所以我更加唔會明一位同志教徒既思想

不過我想講既係
點解要上天堂?
等同由細到大都係異性戀教育
要同男人一齊結婚生仔
但係點解要生仔？點解要揾個男人結婚？

我睇過"大魚奇緣(The Big Fish)"
入面主角去到一個世外桃園，人人都叫佢留低過餘生
但係佢選擇走，去選擇繼續探索呢個世界

重申我唔理解教徒
只係想講有時有啲野唔係其他人，
或者一本聖誕又或者一個宗教教你應該點樣去走人生既下一步
而係你自己。

I am very sorry for your loss.

Religion and sexuality... so many people I know are struggling with this one.  I once read a Christian magazine that interviewed an ex-lesbian who decided to put an end to the "homosexual lifestyle" and follow in God's footsteps to be a born again Christian.  She said she still loved her ex-partner but is now hoping one day she would meet another Christian man and start a family.  I can feel a lot of 無奈 and resignation expressed in her responses between the lines...

Right, wrong, should, should not... in love with someone of the "wrong" sex, it's not normal, I'm not normal, I shouldn't be, shouldn't have, can't, God and my family will be disappointed... what we think about and how we think about what we think about depends on what discourse(s) we are working within.  Maybe in time you will decide on one (or several) that works for you.  Keep asking important questions and challenge pre-established ways of thinking!  Why does it have to be this way?  What are the alternatives?  Why aren't there alternatives?  Who/what does this benefit, who is being left out?  What does this mean for me?  How am I being affected?  Why am I being affected?

[ 本帖最後由 gummy 於 2012-11-25 08:25 編輯 ]

未必關神事ge, 呢d 係命數, 下下入宗教數, 會活得比較辛苦...

人生中總係有D 朋友突然過身, 又唔知幾時又會到自己...所以要珍惜眼前 /_\

Just found out ytd one of my net friend lost two of her friends within two weeks... both are in their early 20s, both accidents... life is unpredictable...

Just got campus news update, she actually took her life, on Wednesday night.

It is difficult to comprehend why such a beautiful, bright and healthy soul has to end this way, perhaps, it would be a relieve for her.

May she rest in peace albeit my heart's still aching.

正如有朋友POST了一張相片上所言, 神不悅之事, 還包括剪髮, 女性要包頭出街, 穿的衣服不能有2種以上的混合物料....等, 為何這些事人們現在可以做, 偏偏就要挑著同性戀不可為?
另外, 聖經並非禁止同性戀愛, 而是不悅濫交...
我不是教徒, 不過以前有女友是教徒, 我也曾經找過一些進步的說法.
我只是覺得, 同志也是人, 如果神真的愛世人, 也一定會愛同樣是人的同志.

今個月17號, 我訓醒第一件事就係拎部電話出黎玩同上網
一開fb, 見到開左一年半有多, 但近日已經好少人post野既小學同學group有野update
點知...係一個同學post出黎關於另一個同學既追思會詳情, 個個moment我真係好難信呢件事
之後我click番去離開左既同學既fb, 再加上group內有另一同學post左報紙既link, 我想唔信都唔得
係我記憶中, 呢位同學成績好, 但又唔係死讀書個d人, 每次考試要順學號坐既話我地就會坐得好近, 我間中都會擰轉頭同佢傾計
我仲記得佢帶眼鏡, 成日笑個樣, 同埋佢寫比我既記念冊話佢最唔鍾意就係食肥豬肉
自從年半前我開左個小同group, 佢都有搞過兩三次聚會, 一次我唔得閒, 其他見冇咩人有反應就不了了之. 對上個次係今年7月, 我自己又搞緊其他野, 諗住年尾前一定會一齊搞大佢, 點知最後一面我都見佢唔到
追思會同出殯個兩日我剛好飛走左, 如果有得揀我真係寧願唔去呢個trip. 出席過晚同學都話, 估唔到畢業之後最齊人既同學聚會竟然係咁既場合, 同時無不慨嘆, 好人真係會短命d

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人生無常,無法控制,但她遺愛人間.