Kenez，Started 1 month, 1 week ago by
你地上blur-f為乜？ (The English version is at the end of this thread)
你好，我係英國卡地夫大學讀緊MSc Social Science Research Methods。
我而家準備緊我既畢業論文，希望可以係度收集資料。
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如果你有其他問題或意見，或者想私下回覆，請PM我。感謝。


上等壞人 replied1 month, 1 week ago
以前細個上黎為左好奇, 想知道自己係咪真係les 上
慣左就成日都想上黎, 其實係想識多d朋友, 可以傾下les既野
就算直既朋友知道我d野, 但同佢地傾既時候佢地都唔係好明
如果有機會既梗係希望搵到partner啦,, 但呢家野唔係話有就有…
有時聽到其他人講話係blur-f識到partner仲一齊左好耐咁, 都唔知真唔真
又或者係好少數啦… 如過話了解下發生緊咩事,
我覺得blur-f既資料只能算係入門級, 唔算好update~



Ariel_lam replied 1 month, 1 week ago
一開始都係好奇, 想知多D"同類人"GE事,
例如佢地對某個行為GE諗法同處理同自己有咩分別/相同..
上上下覺得呢度Ge人諗野較成熟,理智,
同埋大家都好友善, 好肯俾意見, 慢慢會好有歸屬感。
另外就係有時自己有D煩惱係唔敢同外界人講時,
呢度係一個好地方俾自己抒發情緒!



charzz replied 1 month, 1 week ago
sense of belonging, and really want to know how les thinkabout the concept of tb, tbg and pure



齊齊 replied1 month, 1 week ago
上來吹下水，睇下其他b, g, p的故事和遭遇，在blur-f係咪識到人我就無乜所謂



一少。KazaF replied 1 month, 1 week ago
上黎識多d les friend. 因為現實世界中好難識到同道人.
上黎吹水hea時間. 不過的確有d post都會認真地"討論" lol
係li到呻/分享會搵到多d共鳴!
同埋其實我有d習慣左每日都要上黎hea一陣 = =



yingwong replied 1 month, 1 week ago
因為自己的現實世界沒有LES朋友,感覺極為寂寞又孤單,
所以就想睇下自己人的想法,和加入這個圈子。
至於搵partner,都有一絲希望,但覺得好渺茫。
blur-f forum對我黎講,就好似心靈的慰藉




March replied 1 month, 1 week ago
對呢個forum有歸屬感，大家面對嘅問題差唔多，令我覺得我唔係異類。
我唔駛戴住個面具做人，又唔會被人歧視，大家同聲同氣嘅感覺係其他嘅forum揾唔到。



上等壞人 replied1 month, 1 week ago
回覆 #21 kaze326 的文章
其實一開電腦就會慣左一定要睇邊幾個網站先 blur-f就係其中一個
有時上黎其實冇咩目的, 只係慣左, 好自然隻mouse就會click入黎
我都係, 有時心情唔好想搵人呻下都會黎
不過入到黎又唔會真係搵到人呻... 只係覺得需要入下黎咁哈...好奇怪



paperclip replied 1 month, 1 week ago
各位上blur-f為乜？識朋友？搵partner？
了解下lesbian圈子發生緊咩事？定其他？blur-f forum對你地黎講有咩意義？
身份認同. 性取向唔只係關於性, 亦係身份建構.
雖然憤青如我係哩個 "自己人" 的世界都有好多野睇唔順眼;
又雖然我現實生活中都有班lesbian & gay朋友. 但畢竟都上左咁多年, 會唔捨得走...
同志新聞/資訊都係. 會想知有咩同志戲呀, 時事呀, 哩度都會有人講.
搵拖拍唔係本身目的, 但的確係有係哩度識過女朋友.
而且有拖拍個排會少上左LOL (容許我兜翻, 拍拖係一項好花時間既活動, 咁少左時間上黎都好正常嗟...)
你又覺得其他人上blur-f為咩呢？
大概都係差唔多卦 - 身份認同, 歸屬感, 想知being a lesbian係點既一回事.
同埋識朋友識女友啦, 畢竟唔係人人都係現實世界遇到岩傾既les嘛.




WONGKC replied 1 month, 1 week ago
回覆 #1 Kenez 的文章
Meeting someone who shares the same commonality andmeeting new friends I bet.
Though Hong Kong is a kinda westernized city,
still homosexualis not something that being well accepted by the majority.
But here is a placewhere we all sharing the same secual orientation,
you will feel much more comfortableto voice out your opinion here.



homan999 replied 1 month, 1 week ago
老實說：想識朋友同埋八卦！！


secretkidult replied 1 month, 1 week ago
Browsing this website has become a habit of mine...
I justread it everyday...it is an important channel for me to receive information,
both related to lesbian or not related to lesbian...it is a way of relaxing...
I mean browsing blur-f...initially, when I was young,
I browse the website forit make me understand more about lesbian community,
understand more aboutsexuality, as well as ...


Kenez replied 1 month, 1 week ago
好多謝大家畀左咁多有用既資料，歡迎繼續討論∼


goohead replied 1 month ago
身邊都比較少自己人所以當初是想找一種sense of belonging
同時亦想知多一點lesbian圈子的事而且這裡亦能夠解答我一些對於作為lesbian的疑問
後來慢慢就變成習慣了但反而沒有認真識過朋友



南極熊 replied1 month ago
各位上blur-f為乜？識朋友？搵partner？了解下lesbian圈子發生緊咩事？定其他？
blur-f forum對你地黎講有咩意義？你又覺得其他人上blur-f為咩呢？
主要真係想知個圈搞緊乜... 想知大家過得好嗎? les 係香港過得開心嗎?
大家會唔會為左E個圈發聲? (




stupidturtle12 replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
I use this forum because I want to find out more aboutthe hk les community
and how it's different from the US les community.
I alsowould like to get to know les from around the world,
particularly hk because myparents are from there.
I'm also looking for friends and possiblysomething more.




Kenez replied 3 weeks, 5 days ago
好多謝各位會員既分享。見到有幾位會員提到了解下其他人既生活，
我盡量唔想假設「生活」既定義，各位可唔可以分享多ｄ？
例如生活係指感情？朋友？家人？工作？定係其他？請繼續討論。



nicolepig replied 3 weeks, 5 days ago
各位上blur-f為乜？ <<<<< 無聊....向電腦前有時間有多識朋友？
<<<< 我朋友都幾多....呢度有真心朋友的比例應該1/10 吧....
搵partner？<<<<有搵過.....都係無好下場了解下lesbian圈子發生緊咩事？
定其他？<<<<呢度只係一個資料集中地....當中有幾多真幾多假.....好難去一一證實.....
但會明白到你為某一人回覆到一d佢想要的答案 / 知識時都幾開心....因為幫到人
blur-f forum對你地黎講有咩意義？<<<<< 資訊中心..... 你又覺得其他人上blur-f
為咩呢？<<<<< 有七成為識人拍拖



JoeLi replied 3 weeks, 5 days ago
以前上黎為左了解呢個圈子, 睇下人地吹水/ 分享拍拖/ 家人相處既經歷,
始終好少朋友係LES, 其他人都會好奇我既想法經歷,
同時自己都想知其他人又係點. 而家覺得Blur-F係一個彼此認同既地方
因為我地有相同既特質, 相同既理念, 依個討論區既存在先至有意義



helloray replied 3 weeks, 5 days ago
吹水,溝女,八卦


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