原帖由 nthrelimatters 於 2013-3-12 14:30 發表
"你有你目標, 我有我目標, 大家有大家共同目標的"
this is very well said !
having common goals and visions are important,
yet, having your own goals, with a supportive partner in li ...
i guess love is not only about commitment, but also respect and the strong desire making her happy in life (which in return you will be happy seeing her lovely smile), both of them have mutual understanding of each other's goals - in which that goal might be something you appreciated, and you would want to help her achieve it if you love her
if you need to give up your reasons of living for this only lady with no compromise, either she is bigger than your ego otherwise you would be living under her shadow and her expectations.