想識女朋友係咪咁POST?雖然覺得咁樣識女朋友好兒戲, 但係都試下啦.
唔試一定冇
30+ 或比較成熟 - 唔係年齡既問題, 係心態同經歷問題, 好多時年輕的未知自己的人生意義, 目標.

安定 - 不是找飯腳的, 不是找玩伴的, 不是找人hae 的. 想搵個仲意定穩生活, 你有你目標, 我有我目標, 大家有大家共同目標的.

EQ 高 - 唔想大家成為對方的出氣袋, 當然人有emotion 會想人support, 呢的冇問題, 但唔係仲意就打下人, 無啦啦就黑面, 又唔講係乜事, 咁係精神暴力.

[ 本帖最後由 frosty 於 2013-3-11 15:29 編輯 ]

HI~ 祝成功搵到理想盤..XD

多謝你既祝福 努力過就好了.

各自有目標，一個人同兩個人分別不大

[ 本帖最後由 25ZM 於 2013-3-11 15:05 編輯 ]

你有你目標, 我有我目標, 大家有大家共同目標的 <- so there's time for individuals, and there's time for together. each person has their own goal or target want to achieve, and that shouldn't be changed or twisted because of the relationship. the point is to accept and respect. and of coz, there's should be some other goals for two person to achieve together. maybe i didn't write it clear enough

[ 本帖最後由 frosty 於 2013-3-11 15:33 編輯 ]

我都有同感。。。

umm you understand when you understand, so i'm looking for someone who understand it...

This is a meaningful  request .  push ! Try you best !

[ 本帖最後由 little 於 2013-3-11 22:10 編輯 ]

thx for your blessing

i like what you mentioned about 你有你目標, 我有我目標, 大家有大家共同目標的
this is so crucial that both people has their own value and achievements in life, yet they met at some point and become a team supporting each other

feel so glad that you understand the point totally.

"你有你目標, 我有我目標, 大家有大家共同目標的"

this is very well said !
having common goals and visions are important,
yet, having your own goals, with a supportive partner in life, is equally important!

yes there are lots of commitments or sacrfices in a relationship,
and yet if such commitments made you give up ur own dreams or goals in life...... would one still be happy?

thx, i know it's easy to say and hard to do, but i think this is essential in a relationship, kind of respect, alignment and commitment, ppl previously dun get it probably i didn't write it in a way easy to understand. thx for ppl who welling explain further here

QUOTE:

i guess love is not only about commitment, but also respect and the strong desire making her happy in life (which in return you will be happy seeing her lovely smile), both of them have mutual understanding of each other's goals - in which that goal might be something you appreciated, and you would want to help her achieve it if you love her
if you need to give up your reasons of living for this only lady with no compromise, either she is bigger than your ego otherwise you would be living under her shadow and her expectations.

i really want she achieve her goal, which is "be happy", so i asked, how can i help you to achieve your goal, what could make you happy, "sleep" she answered...

not everyone has the tendency to talk with substance every moment, good timing and the mood counts

if i get the same answer over the 4 years, then i probably not the good audience at least.

QUOTE:

it was your ex you were talking about right?
if yes, it simply explains why it didn't work out....

yes, and that's why it came to the end.

i see... good learning i guess, knowing where her value lies and how the differences stop both of you from moving forward, at the end of the day we aim to look for a life companion not a lifebuoy. there's no right or wrong, some people look for pretty faces and some people look for indepth conversations...