yes, a very good lesson indeed. and I think the other crucial factor is we didn't communicate well. provided that if we could communicate well, we suppose could align our expectation, we can understand the vision of each other, we can talk about the discrepancy and come up with some solution, but we didn't. I talked about my concern, and she just replied that she think we should separate, and that was only a whatsapp message...
please, for those who read this post, please don't say i love you or end a relationship by messages, this is not the way to do so, please at least make a call. i understand that sometime ppl prefer to write instead of speaking, but for some essential moment or topic, talk in person or at least by voice is much appropriate than by texting.
原帖由 sky_little 於 2013-3-12 18:42 發表
i see... good learning i guess, knowing where her value lies and how the differences stop both of you from moving forward, at the end of the day we aim to look for a life companion not a lifebu ...
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