標題: [其他] What type of lesbian are you?
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Lipstick Lesbian
A lipstick lesbian is a woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side and is attracted to other femmy women.


Chapstick Lesbian
A chapstick lesbian is also known as a soft butch or androgynous. She usually dresses quite casually and does not wear make-up. The term Chapstick Lesbian was popularized after an episode of the TV show Ellen. Someone asked Ellen if she were a lipstick lesbian or what. Ellen replied, she was more of a chapstick lesbian.

Femme
A feminine lesbian who is attracted to butch lesbians more so than lipstick or femmy women. Sometimes spelled Fem.

Blue Jeans Femme
A Blue Jean Femme is a lesbian who identifies as femme, or feminine, but prefers jeans and more casual clothing to dresses and skirts.

Butch
A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics.

Stone Butch
A stone butch is a lesbian who gets her pleasure from pleasing her partner. She does not like to be touched sexually.

Pillow Queen
A Pillow Queen is someone who likes to be on the receiving end of sex. She likes to be pleasured and not reciprocate.

Soft Butch
A soft butch is a lesbian whose appearance is generally androgynous. She may dress and act in a masculine manner, but be soft and more feminine in the inside. Also, a soft butch can be someone who falls somewhere between butch and femme, but closer to the butch side.

Stem
A stem is a lesbian who identifies somewhere between "stud" and "femme". Also known as Kiki.

Power Dyke
A Power Dyke is a lesbian who has gained a position of power, either within the LGBT community, or in the world at large. She could be the head of a non-profit agency, a politician or successful in business. Also known as Power Lesbian or a Suit.

Diesel Dyke
A Diesel Dyke is a very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is very aggressive. In some lesbian circles Diesel Dyke refers to a very butch Big-Rig (or other heavy equipment) driving lesbian. Also known asBulldagger.

Sport Dyke
A sport dyke is a lesbian, who more than anything, identifies with being an athlete. She may also dress in a manner that would give the impression she is an athlete, like baseball caps, sweatshirts and jeans.

Baby Dyke
A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet. Also know as Dyke in Training. Common Misspellings include: baby dike.

Stud
A dominant lesbian, usually butch, often African American.

Hasbian
A hasbian is a woman who used to identify as a lesbian and date women, but is now dating men.

LUG
LUG stands for "Lesbian until Graduation". A LUG is a woman who experiments with women during her college years, but eventually decides she is straight and marries a man.

Drag King
A drag king is a woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not always.

Bisexual
A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.

Pansexual
A pansexual is someone who is attracted people of many genders. Also known as Omnisexual.


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Lipstick Lesbian
A lipstick lesbian is a woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup an ...

lol femme o pillow queen?
i think we are just girls who like girls in general


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i usually identify myself as a bisexual, but I guess pansexual suits me more

I would like to be a pillow queen, but I would relent if requested lol

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"I think people like to categorize too much." Shane, the L Word.


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"I think people like to categorize too much." Shane, the L Word.

JBeals, are you Jennifer Beals?  Cuz I would really want to say you're divine!
Categorizing is somewhat necessary, don't you think?  
I'm lipstick lesbian (although I ditch the makeup unless required) but I'm only drawn to other lipstick lesbians, labeling lets others know what type of person I'm looking for, so they don't set me up with somebody I know I couldn't be in a relationship with.
It's the same with the "TB, TBG, Pure" labels we have in Asia, but I think they don't really represent people well enough.  I mean, you can go on a debate as to what exactly "pure" stands for, and not reach any conclusion.

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well, I would be attracted by some kinds of lesbians and some kinds of men.  Then am I just Bisexual?


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i think i am somewhere between lipstick or chapstick stem bisexual with kinsey scale somewhere between 4 or 5.

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Thanks all for your input.  By the way, I used to consider myself bisexual, 50% interested in guys, 50% interested in girls.  Now, I think I'm 75% homosexual.

It is pretty hard to have a label that describes 100% who you are, but still they're useful in identifying the gist of it.


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Haha very clear definitions!

I do agree definitions become important when it comes to know what type of person you're looking for and vice versa!


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It certainly helps but I can't find one that fits me...


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原帖由 wendyalison 於 2013-4-5 09:36 發表

JBeals, are you Jennifer Beals?  Cuz I would really want to say you're divine!
Categorizing is somewhat necessary, don't you think?  
I'm lipstick lesbian (although I ditch the makeup unle ...

I agree that she's divine.
Catergorizing is fine as long as you don't find pressure that comes after it. Mostly they mean boundaries I guess. Like who says Tomboy should always take care of her partner? Why not vice versa? As Jean-Jacques Rousseau said "Men is born free, and everywhere he is in chains."


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Interesting, i think i am Soft Butch plus Bisexual :/
Since i believe everyone is bisexual, it only have rare cases for 100% straight.


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用不著這麼分類吧,其實性別角色是流動的,不過社會氣氛低下,大部份人覺得異性戀才是合情合理。


 

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