Need some advice
I have been in an ‘unclear’ relationship with a tomboy for about5-6 years. Lately, a guy who is younger than me for a couple years confessed tome and due to some stupid yet unknown reason, I agreed to go on trial dates with him,despite the fact that I still haven’t sorted out my relationship with thetomboy, and that he knew.
I thought a trial date means nothing happens and just hangout, get to know each other a bit better before committing. Don’t know if it isbecause it’s his first relationship, he was a bit possessive and had alreadytreated me as his real girlfriend when we met up (no matter with a group ofpeople or just 2 of us). During the ‘dates’, he was being really protective andcaring, he hugged me, held my hand and kissed me on my temples (thank god notlips yet!). But I was acting a bit cold as I am still not sure of my feelingsto him.
I could not let go of the tomboy cause I really did andstill do love her. Yet this might be a good chance for me to try out on guys. Iknew I am a bi but just wanna know that if I actually like guys (sometimes theydisgust me).
I was planning to tell him that this doesn’t work but 1. Iwas scared to lose and hurt this friend; 2. The tomboy is still a huge unknownfactor; 3. When should I tell him the truth or shall I give him a few morechances before I jump into a conclusion that we can’t be together?
Thanks for all those that talked to me about this before butI’m still struggling.
P.S.: I can read Chinese but can’t type. So if anyone wouldreply to this post with Chinese, I would very much appreciate it.